tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1764234819178997967.post4742932902337314917..comments2023-04-14T09:15:02.514-05:00Comments on Daddy's Duty: The Ugly TruthAshleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03929183285146836161noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1764234819178997967.post-1637021317737671542009-10-13T14:23:44.289-05:002009-10-13T14:23:44.289-05:00No stone throwing from me!! :)
Yay for "Purp...No stone throwing from me!! :)<br /><br />Yay for "Purple Dress Day!" I couldn't possibly be happier for you!<br /><br />People try (and sometime they don't) to understand what it's like to go through a deployment... and most times they are amazingly supportive and brilliantly kind. Once in awhile a bad egg gets through and it sure hurts, doesn't it. <br /><br />Water off a ducks back, baby... (easier said than done sometimes, though :) <br /><br />Lots of love and understanding coming from the Mrs. part of Sgt and Mrs Hub! Also, I am more than willing to stomp on someone's toes if you need me to. ;)<br /><br />-AndreaAndrea@Sgt and Mrs Hubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02226888560872834473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1764234819178997967.post-62527779968910946672009-10-12T17:41:29.001-05:002009-10-12T17:41:29.001-05:00It is your feelings, your life and unfortunately p...It is your feelings, your life and unfortunately ppl don't understand. A deployment is hard - not only are they gone - you don't know what will happen next. Everyone's stressors are different it doesn't mean yours is any more or any less. When Chuck was gone I felt so alone and even normal decisions seemed hard.I also think when it gets close to coming home time its hard because it is close but not close enough......Hang in thereJohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09967445220516599195noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1764234819178997967.post-89311717385558904782009-10-12T12:17:02.661-05:002009-10-12T12:17:02.661-05:00Since when is a Deployment a "little thing&qu...Since when is a Deployment a "little thing"? Even if it is a MilWife who said that, it's probably her unhealthy way of coping with her own vulnerability. I'm sorry. Some people are just jerks. You have every right to feel what you are feeling, and no apologies necessary!JGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03116405895683599572noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1764234819178997967.post-22976579861940245292009-10-12T09:17:40.074-05:002009-10-12T09:17:40.074-05:00You are entitled to your thoughts. The stressful t...You are entitled to your thoughts. The stressful thing for you right now is deployment. For someone else, it could be the death of a family member and for someone else it could be that they can't decide what car to buy.<br /><br />No one has the right to belittle someone's feelings. Deployment IS a a big deal. Especially when you have kids. I find it a huge deal with me right now and we DON'T have kids. Hello, half my self is gone. That's a big deal.<br /><br />Let me guess... this person isn't a MilSpouse and "can easily deal" with her husband's absense for work... all 1.5 weeks of it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1764234819178997967.post-85101877282299889032009-10-12T08:49:43.890-05:002009-10-12T08:49:43.890-05:00I really really REALLY hate that because some peop...I really really REALLY hate that because some people feel entitled enough to come to OUR blogs and belittle us for our thoughts and opinions. If you don't like it, go somewhere else. Read something else. I get that, yes, it is public, but it is OUR public emotions, thoughts, expressions--which, last time I checked, was a right we had. I feel your pain. I wish I could just lay everything out there sometimes, and its sad that we cant. <br />Especially if it was your Facebook page. Like really, who the hell do people think they are?!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com